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7/19/2014

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Hi - I am Kris, Michelle's (younger) sister. Todd Fertig is what I call my Bother -- he's my brother/father. I am fortunate to live close to Michelle and Todd and have been experiencing first-hand Todd's fight since his diagnosis. Today, I had to post a blog entry -- not about what Todd means to me, we'll save that for another day -- but about a truly remarkable experience that I witnessed today in seeing my community come together as FAMILY to support someone in need.

Many of you may know that I teach 5th-8th grade at TEAM Academy in Newark, NJ. At a time when most children are swimming in their community pools or on vacation with their families, today, TEAM kids chose to go to school...to volunteer their time working (washing cars)...to support Todd in his fight against cancer. Wow.

Past students, current students, future students, parents, TEAM colleagues, neighbors, cousins, friends, and others coordinated a car wash at our TEAM school in Newark, NJ, complete with home-made posters, beautiful custom t-shirts, spare change collection cans, donated sponges and soap, lots of energy and plenty of smiles and hugs . The sole purpose was to raise money for Todd for his fight against pancreatic cancer. A majority of these people have never met Todd, or have only seen my pics of his kids on Facebook. They did this because Todd is my "Bother" and they know he needs our help. They did this because they have seen Ellis, Wyeth, Owen, and Michelle at TEAM Academy-  in person,  through my thousands of videos and photographs, and through my stories. They did this because they know my family means the world to me. They did this because it is one of our school mottos, "If a TEAMmate needs help, we give." They did this because the community at TEAM, and more broadly in Newark, is more than just an organization of teachers, parents,  and students...they did this because we are Family. We are a TEAM and Family.

One parent also told me that many kids have been selling candy, hosting lemonade stands and saving their allowances to donate to Todd -- anonymously. Why, I asked. Her response was that the students were taught at TEAM to do the right thing, not because they want recognition or reward, but because it's who they are. Those students are demonstrating Kohlberg's level 5 and 6  of moral development -- something we teach them at TEAM Academy  when they are in 5th grade. "I do the right thing because it is my moral code." Wow.

I've always believed that I would do whatever it takes to help a child succeed. Never would I have imagined seeing them do whatever it takes to help ME succeed. I am so proud of them, so humbled, so grateful. We are Family. We are TEAM.

Peace - Kris

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#noonefightsalone






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7 Comments
Jessica
7/19/2014 09:25:20 am

Love, love, love this.

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Hannah
7/19/2014 01:41:22 pm

I am so amazed with the wonderful woman you have become,Kris. It has been a blast all of these years watching you growing and unfolding into the multitalented, compassionate,energetic and personable gal--- not to mention the teacher you are. Now---Kris--- it's back at you. These folks love you. I love you too.

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Marian
7/19/2014 10:40:19 pm

Wow! That's terrific! You have taught them well, Kristen, now they wanted to demonstrate what they have learned! What a blessing

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Lauren
7/20/2014 09:14:31 am

Every post on this blog and on your facebook page makes me cry. You and your family deserve every miracle - those that have been happening and more to come.

Kris, I know you are brilliant, talented, and hilarious, and you still amaze me with how much you can get done each day, some of which before I'm even awake for the day. I'd like to think that if you all were in Pittsburgh that I'd be helping in some way, but I could never do half of what you do!

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David Watkins
7/20/2014 09:49:07 pm

What a moving story, Kris--AND an unsolicited commentary on the love that comprises your entire family. You are a remarkable person, and should be justifiably proud of your personal, selfless, demonstration that "paying-it-forward" can work. Our politicians and "leaders" could learn volumes from the lessons taught through this touching experience. Thanks for sharing--at many levels.

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Jim Sidel
7/21/2014 05:15:00 am

So lovely to see people coming together for any good reason. Todd is so well loved!

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3/6/2015 02:51:27 pm

They did this because the community at TEAM, and more broadly in Newark, is more than just an organization of teachers, parents, and students...they did this because we are Family. We are a TEAM and Family.

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